Monday
5th December 2016
SHE
SAID / HE SAID:
A
slightly different entry today.
Today
we farewelled Geoff's Dad, & this “Brief Life Story”, sums up
this wonderful husband, father, grand & great-grandfather, &
a friend to many.
GREGORY FRANCIS JOHN O’REGAN
10 May 1933 – 30 November 2016
Gregory’s
entrance into this world defined his life.
Born in a simple room up the wooden stairs at the popular Palace Hotel, Watsons Bay, Greg grew up with an attitude towards life where love of family mattered more than material possessions, hard work brought rewards, and faith in God provided solace and a source of direction.
When he was very young, a rift grew between his parents, such that in 1941 his mother placed Greg in Saint Michael’s Orphanage, Baulkham Hills, where he was later joined by his dear brother Paul.
Greg’s days were filled with lessons of life and labour. Earning the trust of the Sisters of Mercy, he relished his expanding dues of milking cows, collecting honey and running errands.
With
WWII putting pressure on space in the family home and at St
Michael’s, at the age of 10 Greg was transferred to Saint Vincent
de Paul Boys’ Home, in Westmead.
The
structure, security and the spirituality of the Home influenced Greg
immensely, such that by the tender age of twelve Greg had a clarity
of mind to devote himself to God.
Marist
Brothers Juniorate in Mittagong became his home, where he learnt the
ways and discipline of the Catholic Order, and Greg became Brother
Placid.
After
serving some eleven years learning and teaching, Greg questioned his
vocation to the Marist Order, and with nothing more than a few coins
in his pocket, he departed, redirecting his energy and passion to
becoming a qualified teacher.
It
was during this transtion from cloth to classroom at Balmain
Teachers’ College that Greg spotted a young, bright and somewhat
shy Valerie Hislop.
Despite
Greg being a mature age student, all of 24, their relationship
flourished, and in the following years Greg made many a trip across
Sydney Harbour on his BSA motor bike from his Double Bay home to Val,
his North Shore girl.
Greg
and Val were married in Saint Michael’s Church, Lane Cove, Sydney
in 1960, marking the beginning of a mutual devotion that would last
56 years.
From
the rental house in Randwick in Sydney’s eastern suburbs, Greg’s
early years of marriage were filled with challenges and cherished
moments. He taught locally at Bondi Public School, and later,
Haberfield Demonstration School. Creating a family home was a
priority, and by 1962 the first family home was designed and built
and ready to move into in the far outer suburb of Sydney, Minto.
Greg
did a long daily commute on the ‘rattler’ into Sydney as he
combined providing for his growing family, as a teacher for the NSW
Department of Education, and completing a Bachelor of Arts at
University of Sydney; he graduated with Honours in 1964. Greg’s
work took the family briefly to Armidale where he lectured at the
Armidale Teachers’ College at the University of New
England. Accepting a role with the Commonwealth Office of Education,
Greg soon returned to Minto with the family.
GREGORY FRANCIS JOHN O’REGAN
10 May 1933 – 30 November 2016
Born in a simple room up the wooden stairs at the popular Palace Hotel, Watsons Bay, Greg grew up with an attitude towards life where love of family mattered more than material possessions, hard work brought rewards, and faith in God provided solace and a source of direction.
When he was very young, a rift grew between his parents, such that in 1941 his mother placed Greg in Saint Michael’s Orphanage, Baulkham Hills, where he was later joined by his dear brother Paul.
Greg’s days were filled with lessons of life and labour. Earning the trust of the Sisters of Mercy, he relished his expanding dues of milking cows, collecting honey and running errands.
In
1969 a new chapter in Greg’s life began when he was compulsorily
transferred to Canberra as part of the newly formed Commonwealth
Department of Education. The young family with six children took up
residence in the then barren outer-suburb of Farrer, and the family
proceeded to grow, numbering ten by 1980.
His
dedication to the Commonwealth Public Service over 26 years saw Greg
work on leading policy and programs, such as the Colombo Plan to
bring overseas students to be educated in Australia. In the
Department of Prime Minister and Cabinet, Greg led and organised some
200 visits of Prime Ministers, Princes, Presidents, and the Pope to
Australia. He also managed many delegations which accompanied Prime
Ministers Fraser and Hawke on their travels to nations both near and
far.
Despite
the demands of work life, Greg’s focus on family was personal and
paramount. He spent many hours and covered many miles ferrying his
children to sport, music lessons, dance classes, choir, church and
scripture. Providing for the family of twelve meant that meat and
bread was bought wholesale, and crates of produce were purchased from
the fruit markets. Holidays largely consisted of family camping
trips, often making sure that Val stayed at home to relieve her from
the daily load of home duties.
Greg’s
links with the Marist Brothers remained a steady force throughout his
life, and upon retirement from the Public Service in 1990, he took it
on himself to write newsletters, organise reunions, and lend an ear
to support former Brothers in times of need.
His
later years also gave him additional time for his beloved
grandchildren and great-grandchildren, and he was often happiest when
there was child on his hip.
Greg’s
life was marked by his devotion to his family, his faith and his
work.
His
values, love and generosity will live on through his family and many
others. May he rest in peace.
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